One of the main reasons why people delay/block the manifestation of their desired reality is because they don’t allow a transformation to take place in themselves (in their outlook, personality, attitude, mindset) that would allow them to match up to this reality. In many cases, when you desire a new reality, in a lot of ways, you are desiring a “new version” of yourself. There will be some desired realities that may be a total match to who you are presently as a person, and these realities do manifest around you with ease. But many of your big desires may require that you transform as a person to match it, and until you allow this transformation in you, the reality does not manifest.
This is main reason “small” desires seem to manifest easily while the “big/main” desires/dreams are not coming with ease. For example, you may be able to manifest an empty spot in a parking lot with ease, but that relationship you desire or that financial success you desire just doesn’t seem to come through. The manifestation of small things, like a free parking space, does not require a change in your personality while the bigger desires might require a shift in your attitude, outlook and personality in general, and until you become a match to the reality the reality does not manifest itself.
Can you a match to the new reality?
The direct question you need as yourself is – “As the person I am now, do I feel I am a proper match to my desired reality”, in other words do you feel that you can handle the new reality with the personality/attitude you have now.
You will notice that with some of your desired realities, you have a “fear” attached to its manifestation. You may have fearful thoughts about how your life will change when this “desired reality” manifests. For example, you may desire financial success but there may be fears in you about how your life will change once this reality manifests, you may even fear that you will not be able to “handle” the financial success. These fears are an indication that “something” in you is not a match to the desired reality – it may be your personality, your outlook or attitude, but something about you, as the person you are, is not a match to your desired reality, or else you would not have these fears arising.
It’s takes a bit of honesty and authenticity, to admit within, that you are not yet a match to your desired reality. You may desire that beautiful relationship, that amazing car, the house, the successful business, the abundant money flow, the healthy body or anything else that may be your “big” desire, and it’s also evident to you that your heart really desires to experience these realities, and yet the question is do you have “fears” about how you will “handle” these realities? The person you are right now may not be a match to the circumstances your “desired reality” may manifest around you. It can take some honesty to admit this within you, but acceptance is the first step to allowing the change to happen.
Allowing your fears to transform you
Most of us seem to run away from our fears, and this is the reason why inner transformation does not happen swiftly. It’s the “energy” of your fears that have the power to make a transformation in you. The only reason why you fail to transform is because you are constantly avoiding allowing the energy of your fears to really touch your being. Fear does not feel pleasant and so we instinctively try to run away from it, instead of allowing it to move through our space. When you allow fear to move through you, the way air moves through a flute, you will see that this “fear” starts transforming you from within and leaves you a “new” person, a more mature person, who is a match to the desired reality.
When fears arise in you, don’t try to distract yourself and don’t try to suppress them. Allow the energy of the fears to arise fully and move through your space, through your body. Surrender yourself to this movement of fear without trying to escape it in any way. It can be unpleasant in your body because it’s an energy movement, and it’s creating an inner transformation – in other words it’s almost “reprogramming” you from within. There is a lot of truth to the adage “On the other side of fear, is success”, when you allow a certain fear to course through you fully, you will emerge a completely different person on the other side – a person who is no longer afraid of that fear. This person, that you’ve transformed into, is now a match to the desired reality and hence it manifests with ease.