Your comfort is of essence, and when you truly love yourself you will never want to put yourself in a situation that is not comfortable to you. The mind can come up with several excuses to make you do things that are not aligned with your natural inclination, and thus against your comfort – this is what fear-based/lack-based thinking would usually do for you. For eons we have been conditioned in the adage “No pain, No gain”, and this makes the mind feel that it needs to struggle in order to achieve well-being/abundance. But when you really understand law of attraction you would know that it’s not possible to attract well-being through actions that are rooted in struggle. Struggle can only attract more struggle, and if you want to attract comfort/ease in your life, you need to get aligned with comfort/ease right now in your present reality – you need to go against the fear-based conditioning of the mind and consciously align with your comfort.
Comfort attracts comfort
A common misplaced advice/guidance that comes from people who are living in a lack-based mentality is that you need to “get out of your comfort zone” in order to achieve success. But “success” as a definition is to be in a place where you feel an influx of well-being in the form of ease, comfort, enthusiasm, excitement and joy – whereas getting out of your comfort-zone implies that you take on a vibration of struggle, effort, “force” and fear, these two vibrations cannot co-exist and the vibration that you align with will be the “point of attraction” for your reality. So when you follow the advice of staying outside your comfort-zone, you always end up attracting realities that cause you stay alienated from your comfort. When you stay within your comfort-zone all the time, you keep attracting realities that further amplify your comfort and thus allow you to feel successful and aligned with your natural movement.
When you try to push yourself outside your comfort-zone, you are basically forcing yourself to do what you inherently don’t feel like doing (going against your natural or inherent make-up/potential). When you are trying to achieve an “end result” and you are using a “means” that is not “aligned” with who you are, it causes you to feel like you are going outside your comfort zone. The truth is that the end-result is completely attracted by the “means” that you are using to get there. So it’s not possible to have an end-result of joy when the means is “joyless”, it’s not possible to attract a secure reality when the means is rooted in “insecurity”, it’s not possible to have an end-result of success when the means is full of struggle. Whenever you take an action, try to sense what’s the underlying vibration that is motivating the action – does it feel motivated by joy, excitement, enthusiasm and passion or is it motivated by fear, lack, anxiety, competition and servility, the vibration of the action will define the reality that it’s attracting.
You cannot attract success through struggle
Success is not just about piling the money or achieving some external possessions, success is about feeling a sense of joy, fulfillment and peace – it’s this feeling within that defines how successful you really are. All the material objects that you desire will manifest easily in your reality once you align with the feeling of “success” in your “Now” moment. If in your present reality you choose to align with struggle and joyless action, it’s not really possible for your energy vibration to attract a reality that reflects abundance and joy even if you end up making a lot of wealth through your struggles. Wealth does not define success, but a feeling of success within does attract all the wealth that you desire.
It’s not an easy task, initially, to stay true to your comfort because your mind is conditioned, since childhood, to align with struggle, effort and hard-work (joyless work). It’s common to feel guilty when you are aligned with your comfort. We tend to reserve a certain small period every year, which we call “vacation”, where we allow ourselves the freedom to align with our comfort (ironically some of us have so much struggle inherent in their vibration that we end up “stressing out” more during vacations). What if you lived every day of your life aligned with your comfort? You would become a magnet that attracts comfort constantly, and new vistas will open up for you that allow you to keep indulging in the vibration of comfort and ease. This is what success feels like.
A person who makes the conscious decision to line up with his/her comfort will automatically start attracting a reality that allows a reflection of effortless abundance and ease. Such people end up attracting jobs/vocations that feels aligned with passion, excitement and joy, thus celebrating every day of their life. Always remember that life is supposed to be a fun-ride and not a journey of struggle/lack, if your mind is not aligned with its joy it’s not possible to attract a fun-based reality. It’s a conscious choice that you need to make by understanding this simple physics of life.