When you find yourself in the presence of a manifested reality that you “dislike” it’s an indication of a belief/thought in you that is contradicting your true nature. Since your true nature is rooted in love and abundance, any thought in you that is rooted in hatred, fear or lack will cause the attraction of a reality that you “dislike”.
You can only “like” a reality that is based in peace, love, joy and abundance, because this is the very nature of the conscious energy that you are. As a human being it is possible for you (and is inherently your power) to exist in a reality that you don’t dislike, even if you have desires of manifesting more things. To exist in a reality that you dislike is an indication that you have certain negative vibrations dominant in you owning to certain thoughts/beliefs. You can be free from such negative realities by identifying the patterns of negative thought in you, and thus releasing belief in it.
Ending the cycle of manifesting undesired realities
Every negative reality that you are privy to is attracted by a negative thought within you. A lot of people state firmly that they can only think positive when they are in the midst of a positive reality, and that it’s not humanly possible to think positively when you are in midst of a reality that seems to reflect lack, hate and fear. And yet, it’s actually the presence of a negative vibration in you that attracted a negative reality, and by focusing on negative thoughts you only keep re-creating this cycle of manifesting undesired realities.
The only way to break free from the cycle of undesired realities is to make a conscious choice of not identifying with negative thinking even when you are in the midst of an undesired reality. This requires a conscious commitment to staying dis-identified with negative thinking, which may not be too easy initially because till now you were in the habit of dwelling on negative thoughts in response to your undesired reality. A human being who is not conscious of the mechanism behind creation of realities would, unconsciously, be stuck in undesired realities by constantly giving energy to negative thinking instigated by observing the undesired reality. It takes a conscious human being to break this cycle by consciously dis-identifying with negative thinking of the mind.
Negative thinking serves no purpose
It’s a huge revelation when you realize that nothing is served through negative thinking, in fact it’s counter-productive because it has the tendency to attract further negative realities. In other words, all the different ways in which we think through the lens of fear/lack, like complaining, feeling guilty, arguing, worrying about the future, resenting the past, criticizing and fuming, serve no purpose in changing the “negativity” in your reality – it’s just wasted time and energy. Not only that, these negative thinking patterns also fuel the attraction of more unwanted circumstances in your life, so it’s just a double whammy.
So when you realize that negative thinking serves no purpose, why exactly would you still give credence to negative thoughts? It’s either because it’s a habit you are not willing to let go of, or because you feel more at home with negativity. It’s true that there are many people who find security in their negativity, and feel “vulnerable” about letting go of their negative thinking patterns. You most often see such people defending their right to think negatively with all their might. This is a quirk of the mind, because the mind would rather stick with the familiar patterns of thinking than make a leap into a new way of perceiving reality. But if you are committed to making a positive shift in your reality, you will not hide behind excuses, and be resolute in your stand to no longer give credence to negative thinking.